Monday, November 1, 2010

Culinary Adventures

They say that one of the hardest things to say is "I'm sorry".

If this is true, then the second hardest thing to say is "Yes".

There are so many appropriate reasons to say no. No, you can't watch another movie. No, you can't eat hotdogs for every meal. No, playing with a saw is not safe.

But let's face it: often we say no just to save ourselves the mess we know will ensue when they ask to play with glue, paint, and glitter. Or because it would be so much quicker to make pancakes or wash dishes without their help.

Still, sometimes you are granted a moment's grace, where you realise that every quest of a child, no matter how messy or annoying, is an opportunity for them to learn, create, and grow.

So when Jude asked to make soup, I said "Yes".
Go get your cookbooks and a pen, now, because I know you're going to want to write this down. In a small saucepan, combine grapes, bread, blueberries, rice milk, some Cheerios, and a healthy dose of sea salt. Make up the quantities as you go.

After much stirring and tweaking, Jude decided he wanted to eat his concoction for dinner. Good mama that I am (it was actually a bit of a struggle for me), I said, "Yes". Then along came the hardest request to say yes to: "Want to try some, mommy?"
But I did. I tasted it. It was sweet. And very salty. I managed to avoid consuming any of the solid, floaty things. Not to be outdone, daddy (who is a bit squeamish about certain textures of food) tried it. Even Violet, the picky eater of the family, gamely gave it a try.

 
Here's what she thought: 

Jude asked for a "side" of spaghetti, which is what the rest of us were eating. He was so proud of his creation, and delighted that we all tried it. He'll never know that we were all lying through our teeth when we said, "Yum!" What he'll remember is one word:

Yes.

10 comments:

  1. I've been struggling with this myself. Yes. I can do it. Say yes!!

    Stephanie :)
    www.simplicitymom.blogspot.com

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  2. I remember doing something similar with a couple of girl friends when I was twelve or so. Our concoction was mostly chocolaty syrup, but I'll never forget my friend's mom who said "Yes" when we asked if we could experiment in the kitchen. I remember thinking "my mom would never let me do that!" Now as a teacher, I find myself saying "Yes" to all sorts of crazy things. It's good for your soul.

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  3. YES!! And what Wabi-Sabi said, thank you for this reminder of a beautiful word that speaks volumes. Excellent post and photos!

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  4. I'm loving your posts lately. Reminding me to be sweeter, and happier, and more "in the moment" with my kids!

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  5. Wow...that one put tears in the corner of my eyes!
    xo maureen

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  6. Woohoo... that recipe sounds like a keeper!

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  7. I love it. I always say, with so many battles to fight against the kids each day, I have to choose them carefully and decide where I can relent, and where I have to put my foot down. The older I get and the more kids I have, the more I have learned to say, "Yes"--though every fiber of my being may fight against it at times!

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